Paris Hilton's Vow of Celibacy

Only for a year however.

A while after the Stupid Girls blog where I maligned Paris Hilton as if I really knew everything about her, I've been bumping into a few pieces of news from TV and online about Paris' morally upright side. The first one I've encountered was on ET, where she was shown spending time with a devoted fan who had cancer. She said that it felt great helping one of her fans fulfil her dream. Another one was not actually a display of charity, but an implication from her previous controversial relationship with a guy also named Paris. I'm not sure if this was just one of the reasons or the sole reason that Paris Hilton broke up with Paris. All I heard was that she was enraged after discovering, during a dinner meeting or something with her then boyfriend's family, that he has not told his family about their relationship even if they have been together for a long time. It seemed to me that Hilton was expecting a formal relationship where families of both parties are aware of it.

What did I learn from this? A person's whole character should not be judged just by particular/selected things that he did or is doing. It's trite, but I fail to consider it when it comes to dealing with people. At first, all I heard about Paris Hilton is her sluttishness in One Night in Paris porn vid and her stupidity and high-maintenance lifestyle in The Simple Life. Aside from that, I did not care about knowing her beyond that. And that was wrong. This human being has a lot more than that. First impressions do last. But they should not be allowed to last forever.

So below is another 'good news' about Paris Hilton. Yes, a one-year vow of no-sex-but-just-kissing may not make Paris a saint. But at least she did something based on personal ethics. It showed that she's not all about sex. She has a cognitive mind that can develop a strategy to determine whether her current boyfriend loves her or is just looking for sexual experience from the Paris Hilton. She's not stupid after all.

WTF?! Paris Preaches Abstinence

(URL: http://news.yahoo.com/s/eo/20060805/en_celeb_eo/19688)

By Natalie Finn Fri Aug 4, 10:12 PM ET

There's a Hilton that won't be checking in any overnight guests this year.

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Paris Hilton--yes, that Paris Hilton--has sworn off sex. For 12 months, anyway.

In an interview for the September issue of British GQ, the star whose oeuvre includes The Simple Life and One Night in Paris set out to dispel rumors that she's a sure thing when it comes to taking relationships to that next level.

"People think I sleep with everyone, but I'm not like that," Hilton told the magazine. "Kissing is all I do.

"I'm not having sex for a year. I've decided...I'll kiss, but nothing else."

The hotel heiress, who seems to change boyfriends faster than shoes, appears excited about the effect her vow of chastity could have on her personal life.

"The reason so many of my relationships don't work is guys are like, 'Hey, what's going on? It's been like four months and I'm only getting a kiss here,' " said Hilton, who was partying with on-again love interest Stavros Niarchos on Sean "Diddy" Combs' yacht this week after attending the rap mogul's annual White Party at the Nikki Beach Club in Saint-Tropez.

While there's no word on what Niarchos has to say about Hilton's new resolution, she sounded as if there's some method to her madness--she has thought this one over and knows exactly what she's doing.

"I feel good about it," the 25-year-old told GQ. "I like the way guys so crazy when they can't have sex with you. If he can't have you, he stays interested. The moment he has you, he's gone. Unless he is really in love with you."

She went on to say that, as far as she knows, she only plans to walk down the aisle once and that, when she goes on dates, she prefers to be treated "like a princess."

As Hilton tones down the sex, her doppelganger is upping the salacious quotient. Professional Paris look-alike Natalie Reid is giving Playboy readers an eyeful in the September issue. Hilton herself says that she has been turning down offers to disrobe for the men's magazine since she was 17.